I wanted to give a special tribute to Tom, my one and only Valentine, because I feel like he never gets mentioned on this thing. So we started dating in May of 2002. It was the summer after my freshman year of college. I knew I had liked him since we got back from Christmas break. Being who I am I told him right away. He did not share my feelings. In his words (he hates this story, by the way) were "he was not physically attracted to me" (see why he does not like it?) :) Well, that was not enough for me to go away. I think I became even more persistent. Which I would not recommend because it just turned him off more. We became best friends though. Since I had already told him I liked him I pretty much had no trouble telling him anything else. We hung out all the time. He borrowed my car all the time. We went on walks, talked on the phone for hours..... okay we pretty much were dating besides the whole kissing and holding hands part. I just thought he was the one. I thought he was the one because he was so honest with me. He would sit and listen to me blab on and on, which those of you who know me know how much I can talk, forever. He just was the first person in my life who was so honest and I knew I could trust him.
He lived in a house with 3-4 guys. I absolutely LOVED hanging out at his house. We played pool, watched movies, talked, listened to music. I got to be pretty good friends with everyone who lived there. All the guys he lived with thought he was crazy, who wouldn't right? :)
So I decided to stay in York for the summer. A big reason was Tom. I have to admit it, lame right? I just could not give it up. Another big reason was I had a great opportunity to make some pretty good money that summer. It makes me laugh now because I made a whole 7 dollars an hour as assistant manager at the movie theater.
Anyways, everyone was leaving to go home for the summer. Tom had a decision to make. See, he liked my friend Katie. I was putting the pressure on pretty thick that we should just try dating. She was leaving I was staying. Easy decision right? Well, he decided to try it. It was the best month of my life. Then he went off to camp and decided it was too much for him. I liked him way more than he liked me and the relationship felt uneven. WHAT? :)
So I backed off. I told him if he wanted to hang out with me he knew where to find me. Let's just say I was fed up.
So, that is all it took. Then I had him. HAHAHAHA (evil laugh)
Honestly though that is what it took. The fear of losing me as a friend made him realize how much he loved me. :)
The rest is history. We were married that next August. Three years later we had Jonas and then three years after him we had Tinzley. We have a lot of ups and downs but one thing has always stayed the same. Tom is always honest. :) I always know he will tell me the truth and I can trust him with how I feel. It is so amazing to have married my best friend, well my boy best friend :).
Thursday, February 11, 2010
My Valentine
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Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Monday, February 8, 2010
9 months!
Today Tinzley is 9 months old. I know I say this every month but OH MY! I cannot believe how fast it has gone. I feel like I just did her 8 month post. Anyways....
We went to get her pictures taken today at my friend Andrea's house. I so love having a photographer as a friend. It is a lot less stressful! It is also nice to visit and Jonas gets to play with a friend too!
So here is what Tinzley is doing now
weighs about 18 pounds
eats three meals a day and has 4 bottles
drinks out of a sippy cup sometimes
loves puffs and graham crackers
loves cheese and yogurt!
loves any people food we give her but still eats her baby food most of the time
has started eating cut up peaches and pears and LOVES them
is not a fan of peas just like her mom!
is not yet crawling but is very close.
scoots on her bottom and scoots backwards to get anywhere
can pull up and can take steps with help from Mom or Dad
waves bye bye, hi, and night night
she says Mama, and Dada, and just started saying bah when we say Bye Bye
still prefers Mom over anyone
LOVES Jonas
loves her Sunday school teacher.
loves babies and herself in the mirror
loves men with dark hair but is starting to be afraid of people she does not know
is not very smiley on command but is a very happy and content baby
she loves sitting and listening to Tom play guitar and loves any singing or music
is getting SO BIG!!!!!! :)
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Sunday, February 7, 2010
Happy Super Bowl Sunday!
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Friday, February 5, 2010
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
So precious
And who would not want to pinch these cheeks? :)
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Tuesday, February 2, 2010
Sick

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